The Edward Hyde Show: 109 : For a few rupees more

"Sometimes I get to feelin’, I was back in the old days - long ago
When we were kids when we were young, things seemed so perfect - you know
The days were endless we were crazy we were young,
The sun was always shinin’ - we just lived for fun
Sometimes it seems like lately - I just don’t know,
The rest of my life’s been just a show."

--Freddie Mercury, These are the days of our lives.

Monday, September 25, 2006

Episode 109 : For a few rupees more

He works as a chartered accountant in a big multinational company.

She works as a chartered accountant in another big multinational company.

He is outside the country for two weeks every month.

She is outside the country for four months every year.

They are married to each other. They are in the early years of their marriage. At the most, they are with each other for 18 weeks in a year.

He sounded satisfied while telling me all this.

Is money more important than a relationship that a couple have to be apart for more than six months every year?

6 Comment(s):

  • At 9/25/2006 7:15 pm, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    maybe its better than spending 34 weeks together and ending up in a divorce.. maybe this works for them..it doesnt for me, both of us have wriggled out of even short trips abroad, but to each his own..

     
  • At 9/25/2006 7:24 pm, Blogger Hyde said…

    I remember reading about sailors who get divorced by their wives within a few years of retirement because the wives were not able to cope up with them being at home 24x7!

    Which brings me to a point I have been making, people today expect relationships to work out of the box. And not realise that relationships are like saplings. That they need to be nurtured and cannot sustain themselves after the initial euphoria is over.

     
  • At 9/25/2006 7:27 pm, Blogger Hyde said…

    Prachi, mutual understanding does not happen just like that. It needs effort and lots of time.

    Distance can bring some closeness. But only some. And it is often distance that unravels that closeness.

     
  • At 9/26/2006 12:21 am, Blogger Deez said…

    mayb they dont know what they r losing out on....

     
  • At 9/26/2006 11:24 am, Blogger Grey Shades said…

    My observations tell me that more often sooner than later cracks start appearing and then its a downhill ride! Even if there is an understanding it starts to break apart!

     
  • At 9/26/2006 11:49 am, Blogger Hyde said…

    Experience is a good teacher, isn't she? :-)

     

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